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Do You Do This?

2013/02 By Lauren B. Stevens Leave a Comment

For the second time in a week, I found myself sitting in my car, hanging out in a parking lot.  No, I’m not a stalker.  I’m a mom with a baby that catnaps, so any time my little guy naps I’m willing to roll with it.  I scoff at those moms who talk about those times when their baby only naps for an hour.  An hour?  That’s a luxury in my book.  I’m lucky if D naps for 45 minutes, but he usually takes three 15-30 minute naps a day.  The flip side, however, is that he will typically sleep for  anywhere between 12-13 1/2 hours at night.  I am uber-protective of his naptimes, so errands are run between those times (meaning, I whisk him out of the house as soon as he’s up from his first nap).  So, if the movement of being in the car lulls him to sleep, I’m going with it.  I should probably start keeping reading material in the car…

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Lesson of the Day

2013/02 By Lauren B. Stevens 1 Comment

When experimenting with transitioning from 3 naps a day to 2, be prepared for this:

Asleep mid-chew at 5pm.  This gal does not want a 5am wake-up call; we’ll be sticking to 3 naps for the time-being.

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Modern Cloth Diapering in a Snapshot

2013/02 By Lauren B. Stevens 5 Comments

I’ve talked about how I came to the decision to cloth diaper, but I’ve not really talked about what modern cloth diapering really means.  For starters, it means no rubber pants or diaper pins.  There is much, much more to these wonderfully reusable pee and poop catchers, let’s take a look:

L-R: flat, prefold (w/ cover underneath), bamboo insert (w/ pocket diaper underneath)

There are many great resources out there to become cloth diaper-literate, so I won’t go into great detail here.    I’ll provide links to some handy-dandy resources at the bottom of this post.  My aim is to give cloth diaper ‘virgins’ a snapshot of what cloth diapering looks like these days.  There are so many cloth diaper options out there, and more hybrids are being created all of the time, but 3 of the 4 basic options are pictured above.

The flat diaper is the oldest of the bunch, and least expensive option, as it is a large piece of cloth that you fold into a diaper shape and wear with a cover over top.  Flat diapers cost a little more than a dollar each and are a one-size-fits-all option (there are many different ways to fold flats and YouTube has some great tutorials).  The next option is the prefold, which is our favorite and the cloth diaper we use the most.  Prefolds are the evolution of the flat, with the material already layered and sewn together for convenience.  We use the trifold, which is the simplest fold, fasten with a little gadget called a Snappi, and finish with a diaper cover.  Prefolds will cost anywhere from $3-10 each, depending on the material and size you choose; sizes range from preemie to toddler.  We prefer unbleached natural fibers, as seen above, but have some of both.  The last two options are the pocket diaper and the all-in-one diaper (not pictured); these are the closest to disposable diapers and the more expensive options.  Pocket diapers have absorbent inserts that you either stuff inside of the pocket in the diaper shell or snap on top of the shell (conceptually like a maxi pad).  Pockets typically cost $15-20 each and you will likely want to buy additional inserts for use (around $3 each).  The all-in-one or AIO diaper is exactly as the name suggests, with absorbent padding built in; this is your closest option to a disposable diaper.  AIOs take longer to dry and cost $20-25 each.

Here is a great link to all of today’s cloth diapering terminology, from Diapershops.com.  Another wonderful resource is Kelly’s Closet .  For those of you super interested in the world of cloth, Kelly Wels, owner of Kelly’s Closet and Diapershops.com, has written a veritable tome on modern cloth diapering, entitled Changing Diapers.  Feel free to contact me with any questions you might have.  My next cloth diaper post will deal with all of the cloth diaper accoutrements, as that aspect can get a bit overwhelming as well.
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Filed Under: Cloth Diapering, Editorial, General Topics Tagged With: cloth diapering, cloth diapers

A Little Sunshine on a Rainy Day

2013/02 By Lauren B. Stevens 3 Comments

Babies get giddy too — the mere sound of my sighing was enough to elicit a fit of giggles from our little monkey.  I keep this clip on my phone and it never fails to make me smile.  My husband and I both have healthy senses of humor and view laughter as an integral part of life.  What a wonderful thing it is to hear Declan’s belly laugh – may he always see the humorous side of life…

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How Many Calories Does Scrubbing The Tub Burn?

2013/02 By Lauren B. Stevens 2 Comments

I had trouble finding balance in my life long before my little guy came along.  My tendency is to view endeavors as all or nothing.  For example, if I’m starting a workout regimen, I do it every day or I don’t do it at all.  The same goes with house cleaning – I want to clean the entire house in on fell swoop or I don’t want clean at all.  One of the things motherhood has taught me is that I need to have balance – I simply can’t do it all at one time.

Being a new mom has taught me to slow down and relax in some aspects of my life (cleaning, errands, etc.), but it has also taught me to prioritize and be efficient.  When Declan was first born, I was exhausted, not only from Declan’s grueling feeding schedule (every two hours for the first 5 months), but from my frantic efforts to cook, clean, and ‘keep house’.  I don’t know what I was thinking – maybe some sick subconscious desire to be ‘super mom’, or some vain attempt to maintain a semblance of normalcy in my life.  Tired of being, well, tired and stressed trying to keep up with it all, I gradually began trying only to do one major chore or task a day to avoid becoming overwhelmed again.  It is so very true when people say to put more energy enjoying this fleeting newborn/infant stage and less time into the minutiae of keeping a spotless house.

Another area in which I’ve struggled is my exercise regimen.  Thanks to breastfeeding, I was able to lose my pregnancy weight by my 6 week check-up.  However, the extra weight I had on before I got pregnant is a different story.  Those pounds have been stubborn and slow-going, but my exercise routine has been stop and go.  I don’t know what it is, but every time I get into a great rhythm, something pops up to derail me (this past time it was vacation and a subsequent cold).  If there is one thing I do have, that’s perseverance.  I’ll continue going to the Y and watching what I eat and not get frustrated with myself when I fall off course.  If I have an off day, I can always count scrubbing the tub as exercise, right?      

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Teething Tip

2013/02 By Lauren B. Stevens Leave a Comment

Haven’t had a chance to pick up a teether?  Looking to bypass plastic, silicone or rubber teethers and go a more natural route?  Try cold celery.  Kid tested, Median Mommy approved.

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Time-Saving Tip

2013/02 By Lauren B. Stevens 1 Comment

This may be a no-brainer for some of you, but I loved this idea when I came across it (and likely wouldn’t have thought of it with mommy-brain):

I layer my crib sheets with protective pads so that I need only strip off the top layer and pad if/when the sheet gets soiled.  When D first started sleeping longer at night, this was a lifesaver, as he would often wake because his diaper had leaked.  I could whisk him out of the crib, do a quick diaper and sleeper change, and strip the top sheet and pad off; all done without completely waking from my semi-conscious state.  This is also a great space saver if your linen storage is limited.  I currently have three crib sheets layered on ‘in case of emergencies’.

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Mommy Lesson of the Day

2013/02 By Lauren B. Stevens 8 Comments

When out running errands do not a.) lose track of time, b.) lose track of diaper changes, and c.) forget to stash a size appropriate spare outfit in your diaper bag.  Consider this a warning, as Declan had to wear this little gem out of a restaurant today:

Yup.  This would be my 7 1/2 month old wearing a 3-6 month romper.

#badmommy #motheroftheyear #futurefashionicon

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Welcome!

2013/02 By Lauren B. Stevens Leave a Comment

In an attempt to share my natural parenting experiences, and to network with other moms with similar mindsets, I’ve started The Median Mommy.  It’s an incredible adjustment going from career woman to stay-at-home mom, and some days I just need to feel creative and exercise my brain (apart from troubleshooting baby conundrums and the like).  I could go on about my lack of adult interaction and this blog being a sounding board, but the truth is that I get together with other moms regularly and am not starved for adult conversation.  I actually have a more active social life now than in my pre-mommy days.  I’m an average mom, fumbling my way through motherhood, with a desire to share what I’ve learned and continue to learn.  I plan to discuss some of my parenting dos, and probably a lot of don’ts, which will likely align with the parenting philosophies I’m developing as I go.  The thing to remember is that there are no wrongs or rights, just differences.  Just because I advocate, say, babywearing, doesn’t mean that I believe that anyone who doesn’t wear his/her baby is awful.  This blog is about what works (and, alternately, what doesn’t work) for me.  Take what you want, leave what you don’t, and try to be as non-judgemental and open-minded as possible.  Come back often, link to me, and feel free to give me a shout-out 😉

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Lauren B. Stevens is a former publishing rep-turned-writer, whose work can be found on ChildVantage, The Huffington Post, Scary Mommy and Care.com, among many other websites. When she's not chasing her precocious preschooler, Lauren pens hilarious and heartwarming stories about her life as a mother, ghostwrites blogs for businesses, and sometimes even finds the time to write a bit of creative non-fiction.
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