For a woman, the phrases: “don’t fall in the mud”, “have self-esteem”, “keep up the mark” are associated with self-confidence. Agree that such expressions are associated with a woman who knows her value and knows how to achieve her own. Undoubtedly, she gets the attention of the opposite sex, and succeeds in her career. After all, the vast majority of people on whom a woman’s career depends – men.
How to become self-confident and remain so in any situation?
How to learn to always keep the brand and not fall in the mud face? Questions that are important for any woman who consciously goes through life.
In every historical period, in every culture, in fact, there was a different understanding of dignity.
It is known that medieval Japanese samurai, before battle, smeared their hair with aromatic mixtures and incense, with the purpose that if the enemy defeats the samurai and beheads (which was the mandatory and inevitable fate of the defeated), the head should look and smell dignified. Some samurai for this purpose applied exquisite makeup to their faces before battle, which many modern women might envy!
In today’s world, of course, no one thinks about decapitation, but you can very easily tell by your appearance whether you are a confident woman or not. Looking at you, the people around you for a few seconds already form a first impression. Look, posture, gait, voice, elements of clothing, hairstyle, makeup – all this is of paramount importance.
Self-confidence helps you achieve great success:
- in your personal life
- in career
- in social interactions
- and in every other field.
We have all seen reference examples of “businesswomen” in American movies, and they can be characterized by the very phrases with which we began the article. Self-confidence, and a head held high will show that you are the person who is able to make decisions and find ways out of difficult situations.
At work, show it to your boss, let him see you as not only a mechanism for accomplishing tasks, but a really confident woman, worthy of a high career, and success will not wait.
In communication with men also always behave decently. After all, those unhappy women who wipe their feet, themselves guilty of this.
From the very beginning, show a man that you know your worth,
and don’t settle for less.
Let’s imagine a few more situations:
- you accidentally stepped on your grandmother’s foot in the subway. Grandma screams at the whole carriage.
- Your boyfriend suddenly allowed himself a harsh expression in your address, for example: “Are you stupid?”
- A respected boss suddenly and unapologetically began to offer you to sleep with him.
What to do if you find yourself in such an unpleasant situation, which can damage your image, the respect of others for you, and most importantly – self-respect? The outcome depends only on you!
